Transform Your Love Life
INTRODUCING
Erik Carlberg - Dating Coach for Men
Welcome to my website.
I’ve been a dating coach for men for over fifteen years.
My team and I help men, all over the world, and of all different ages, backgrounds, and experience levels, transform their love lives. We aim to make those transformations as efficiently as possible, and we aim to make them lasting. We place a strong emphasis on honesty, respect, integrity, and genuine connections, without compromising results.
We focus, intensely, on co-creating customized strategies, tactics, techniques, and gameplans that cater to each individual client’s wants, needs, and preferences. In other words, we believe that you, the client, hold the master key to unlocking your full potential. Our job is to use our cutting-edge, innovative, highly refined coaching methods to assist you on your journey.
Note: We also work with aspiring dating coaches. If you’re interested in coaching for us, or receiving consulting on growing your own dating coaching business, we’d love to hear from you.
We take what we do seriously and are constantly evolving our coaching strategies.
WE OFFER
- Group workshops, seminars, and bootcamps (both virtual and in-person)
- Online courses and instructionals
- One-on-one coaching (in your home city or destination of choice)
- Phone and video call coaching, as well as text support
- Wingman services
- Training for aspiring dating coaches
- One-off special events
Whether you’re completely new to the idea of proactively improving your love life, are already relatively successful with dating and relationships, or are somewhere in between, we can help you:
- find long-term relationships, life partners, marriage, and love
- grow and sustain those relationships
- attract short-term, mutually beneficial, casual relationships and adventures
- manage fear, approach anxiety, doubt, self-defeating and irrational beliefs, and live a life of greater social freedom
- set up online dating profiles that convert, across multiple platforms
- learn to message/text and effectively set up dates
- keep interactions alive, set up second dates, third dates, and beyond
- customize your approach to dating, and attract highly compatible women
- develop the ability to flirt, converse, build attraction, deepen rapport, trigger emotions, and consensually initiate physical contact
- get over breakups, deal with the pain, and understand root causes of the breakup
- win back your ex (or ensure that mistakes are understood and not repeated)
- win over that special someone that you’re crushing over (or, at least, increase the chances of making it happen)
- expand your social circles and networking skills
- build a lifestyle that’s congruent with your unique personality, and that’s also attractive to your ideal woman
- develop a winning and rational mindset that leads to long-term results (inner game)
- develop a comprehensive understanding of the dating game
- maximize your potential in this crucial area of life
- transform yourself from the inside out
- identify blind spots that are holding you back (blind spots cover their own tracks)
- move up the ranks in skill and understanding – beginner to intermediate, intermediate to advanced, advanced to a never-ending commitment to improvement and progress
- gain not only confidence, but, more importantly, competence
Our clients
Who We Coach
Our dating coaching services cater to men from diverse backgrounds and experience levels worldwide, embracing their unique personalities, motivations, and goals.
All ages:
Men of all ages come to us for help. We’ve worked with guys as young as 18 (even a few that were younger, with parental consent), late seventies, and everything in between. On average clients are in their early to mid-twenties through their mid- to late-sixties.
Different cultures:
Every client is different, and holds different values. The great thing about our training is that it’s catered to the needs of each individual.
Income levels:
Our top-tier coaching packages can be expensive, by most mens’ standards. However, we do our best to provide options for guys of all different income levels. We’ve worked with multimillionaires, and guys that have a hard time scraping together a few hundred dollars. If we can find a way to help, we will.
Good intentions:
Respect for women is the one area that we do not compromise on. Worry not; men of integrity get the best results anyway!
Global reach:
While the majority of our clients are from within the United States, we work with men from all over the world.
Unique personalities:
We are not in the business of pressuring guys to completely change who they are, all in the name of improving their game. Chances are your personality is well-suited for someone out there. Mainstream, alternative, somewhere in between – we’ll help you to develop your own style of game.
Different religions:
Once again, your love life is yours – nobody else’s. Whether God is front and center in your life, mildly directing from the background, or if you don’t believe in God at all, we can adjust our coaching to meet your needs.
Experience levels:
It may surprise you to learn that not every client is at rock bottom – desperately in need of making a change. In fact, some of our clients have a lot of experience, but they’re always looking to take themselves to the next level. Beginner, intermediate, advanced – we’ve got you covered.
Consultation
Free Confidential Consultation
Last, but certainly not least, we offer free, discreet consultations for men that are interested in potentially training with us, that far exceed the industry standard.
Honesty:
We don't hype our coaching up to be more than it is. We don't take on clients that we don’t think we can help. Our consultations are honest assessments of our potential to work with one another.
Confidentiality:
Consultations often require opening up about intimate details, and we take privacy very seriously.
Positivity:
While identifying a prospective client’s pain points is an important part of a consultation, we don’t attempt to amplify pain in order to leverage sales. We’ve been in this industry for many years, and have witnessed some very low-level selling tactics. We believe that men looking to improve their love lives deserve much better.
No pressure:
If a prospective client needs some encouragement, we're happy to provide that extra nudge. That said, we don't believe in using high-pressure sales tactics. If we lose a few clients to the competition for not pushing hard enough, so be it.
Understanding:
At the heart of a good consultation, is developing a thorough understanding of each and every client’s unique wants and needs. Tying into our theme of honesty, we cannot accurately assess if our training is right for you without truly understanding your circumstances.
Free dating advice
We understand that some men aren’t in the market for paid training. While we reserve our best training for paying clients, we offer a ton of valuable advice on our free dating advice page. We also offer several free resources for those that sign up for our email list.
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Before I took Erik’s workshops I was dead in the water. No women would respond to me online and I didn’t have the stomach to talk to them in real life. When someone would set me up on a date I never got a second one. I had no idea how technical “the game” was until Erik started filling me with his teachings. Mindset, body language, lifestyle, yes we worked on those but the actionable things were splendidly impactful.
~ Jim R. – 63 years old – Los Angeles, CA
I’ve been into the game for a long time and Erik is the best kept secret. I’ve taken programs from several other well-established gurus and often find that I know more than they do. Several levels above the rest is how I would describe Erik. Erik, when are you going to stop being so underground and go mainstream?! In all seriousness can’t recommend your coaching enough. You changed my life.
~ David W. – 46 years old – Entrepreneur, New York
Erik has helped me take my flirting game to the next level. He is extremely experienced and is knowledgeable about all types of situations, everything from online to social circles. It is rare to find anyone of this caliber. He is more than just a pickup artist. He cares about helping dudes find quality healthy relationships. I would highly recommend him to anyone.
~ Bradley M. – 30 years old – US Navy, San Diego CA
Erik really helped me through a confusing time. I’m from Texas but was living in Pennsylvania. I went home for the holidays and ran into an old crush. We immediately hit it off and she kept saying that if I ever move back home that I should call her. That wasn’t good enough for me though, I was hooked on this girl and I wanted her right away. I just didn’t know how to do it from many miles away. Erik not only stressed the importance of communication, but instilled the confidence in me to go after it. We set up a game plan, I eventually moved back to Texas and we’ve been dating going on 2 years now! I can’t thank Erik enough for his help!
~ Daniel H. – 28 years old – Sales, Dallas TX
I have only recent found Erik. Working with Erik has been terrific! For years now, I have been striving to find a Dating Coach to work with me. That is very important to me because I'm a lifelong quadriplegic. My specific disability is Cerebral Palsy and I have never had standing or walking balance. It's terrific because people by nature don't want to deal and take the time to deal with someone my issues. Erik was so cool, that he came out to my apartment to talk me and get to know me. So far, Erik has helped configure my profile on a dating website. As with everything else in my life, things are a slow process. Its been made slower because of the current pandemic. Once we get passed the pandemic crisis, Erik and I will continue the process to the fullest extent possible that he has worked with and helped other men. My only real regret and disappoint, is that we did meet ten or fifteen years earlier. Thank you so much Erik, for your willingness to work with me and help me!
~ Joseph B. – 55 years old – Chicago IL
Before I'd started working with Erik, I'd had no success in the dating world: no dates, no kisses, no girlfriends, and no sex. It wasn't that girls were never interested in me, but I would always lose their interest fast because of my own cluelessness. I'd also worked with another coach prior to working with Erik. The trouble was, this coach had charged a ton of money while teaching very little of value. He'd kept telling me to approach random women on the street, even when it was clear that this practice wasn't working for me. Erik did two main things for me. He got me to change tack and do online dating instead of street approaches, which has worked much better for me. Also, while he taught me a great deal, he always encouraged me to use my own brain to evaluate situations with women for myself. Now, I'm much better off than when I'd started. I've been on dates with lots of women and lost my virginity, and now I have a gorgeous girlfriend with an awesome personality. Thank you Erik!
~ Drew M. – 26 years old – Chemical Engineer, New Jersey
Erik has been my dating coach on and off for the last three years and we've logged over sixty hours of intense discussion. I had some experience before we met but I wanted to take my online game to the next level and with Erik's help I did just that. My response rate has skyrocketed as has the quality of women I'm dating. When Ireally apply myself I get more matches and interest than I can handle which has allowed me to be more selective in who I date. I highly recommend Erik whether you're looking for casual dating or a serious long-term relationship, and whether you want to meet women online or on the street.
~ Lenny F. – 50 years old – Programmer, San Jose, CA
Erik is a great dating coach. He really understands women at a deeper level and he's able to effectively teach what he know to his clients. Erik helped me improve the way I present myself before women, and as a result, I'm now happily married to the love of my life going on 8 months now! Thank you Erik for all the help!
~ Vijay V. – 37 years old – Engineer, San Jose, CA
I can’t say enough about working with Erik! I feel like I’m on a life high right now! I’m a tall good-looking guy, but I’ve always been so inside my head. I got 3 phone numbers and met my current girlfriend on my actual coaching session. Without Erik’s encouragement I never would have met my girlfriend and be in this position. I almost didn’t approach her, but Erik pushed me anway.
~ Aleksandar Z. – 34 years old – Finance, Charlotte NC
I would recommend Erik, if you are looking to up your game. He works on your specific goals and helps you get the skills that work towards you as an individual. He will critique your approach and give feedback. Nothing is left untouched, whether it be body language or voice tone. Erik’s attention to detail is what makes him awesome to work with.
~ Justin H. – 40 years old – COO, Chicago IL
I’ve spent a lot of time reading, listening, and watching dating advice for a variety of sources. However, I didn’t have the tools to really elevate my game and see results before I started calls with Erik. He’s a standup guy that shows you how to pursue women with integrity. One of the things we did was rework my online dating profiles, which since I’ve been getting triple the results I had before. Working with Erik, it was more than just learning the right actions to take. He led me to a path where I developed a mindset that gave me the ability to trust my instincts, and the confidence to be authentic in my social interactions with women, but also elsewhere, as well.
~ Malcolm A. – 20 years old – Student, Los Angeles CA
Erik definitely helped illuminate things I wasn’t seeing before. The phone coaching helped immensely on my dating profiles – I previously had profiles up for years with varying degrees of success. Lately, my profiles are active for only one month before I have to take them down because I’m finding serious relationships. Erik places a lot of emphasis on being a great guy. Definitely worth the investment. Don’t pass up his knowledge.
~ State Employee, Chicago IL – 25 years old – Student, Los Angeles CA
Erik definitely helped illuminate things I wasn’t seeing before. The phone coaching helped immensely on my dating profiles – I previously had profiles up for years with varying degrees of success. Lately, my profiles are active for only one month before I have to take them down because I’m finding serious relationships. Erik places a lot of emphasis on being a great guy. Definitely worth the investment. Don’t pass up his knowledge.
~ State Employee, Chicago IL – 25 years old – Student, Los Angeles CA
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More from dating coach for men - Erik Carlberg
Simply put, my team and I help men level up their game. Whether looking for short-term, casual relationships, or love that will last a lifetime, we have strategies and tactics to help men go from meeting a prospective woman to beginning a loving relationship. We help men to meet women through many different avenues – online, social circle, daytime, nighttime – you name it. We help men to craft winning mindsets and lifestyles, but we also focus on doing the hard work of teaching actual tactics, techniques, and sequences that bring tangible results. To top things off, we teach men how to do all of this the right way, with a sense of integrity.
What qualifies me to teach this stuff is the same thing that qualifies a martial artist to teach martial arts: Experience. I’ve spent nearly two decades of my life dedicated to learning and applying every strategy, tactic, and concept under the sun.
Not only have I had a lot of success in my own dating life, but I know how to impart my knowledge to other men. I also have complementary skills that assist me in coaching guys of many different backgrounds. Learn more about my coaching methods by visiting the “About” page.
It’s incredible how many coaches label themselves the “#1 dating coach”, or the “top” coach, “best” dating coach – whatever. I’ve seen coaches with almost no experience, whatsoever, brand themselves number one, right out of the gate.
I don’t have the audacity to call myself #1, nor do I operate from that headspace to begin with. I focus on being the best coach that I possibly can be, and I let other people debate who’s top dog. We’re just not about manipulative marketing tactics, nor are we about several other things. Learn more about what we’re “not about” by clicking/tapping here.
